Monday, August 23, 2010

H+3, what is relationship?

Monday, August 23rd, 2010

One day after my birthday, two friends of my boyfriend visited us. They were a couple, had been together for two years (freshly broke up in last saturday night).
We went to a city centre for sightseeing and during the night we went to a pub, where has a weird stage for dance. In that night club, this couple decided to broke up. The guy decided first, surely the girl was shocked! Yes, the guy is not feeling comfortable anymore because she is too much jealous and like to control his life. My boyfriend told me that they like to do that, on-off and play with the relationship. For me, I saw their case as culture differentiation therapy. The girl comes from other continent where has a very big different treatment in a relationship between different gender. Many problems come and they did not try to communicate in various angle. It could happen to all couple. 
In my case with my boyfriend, we have some problem that encounter us. I try to adjust with his life and solve all problem with communication. It is easy to do when we live close each other, I dunno what will happen when we live far away between each other.
I Believe about what you give is what you take, so I try to give my best. So far, it works!

Good news again, I keep trying to cook. The result is getting better each day. No complained from my boyfriend. Yajuuu.... today I want to make pancake for break my fasting :)

My boyfriend-me-the couple

First time to try this Party Power!

Fish! I love seafood.

These chicken are taste better than last time :)

Friday, August 20, 2010

Day 0, Happy Birthday!

Friday, August 20th, 2010

I am 23 years old! Yes, today is my born date! Yippieeee....

Something Special happened?

well, I gotta say Yes. Special in term of it was not like another day. Few hours before 00.00 some friends have posted birthday greetings in my facebook wall. It's because they are living in different time zone with me, +5 hours more, although some people say it will bring bad luck to give greeting faster but I don't care since they are living in different places with me. It was nice to read all the posts, God bless Mark Zuckerberg, facebook founder, so I still can keep in touch easily with my family and friends who live far away from me.

When it closed to 00.00, my boyfriend behave very nicely. He treated me like a queen bee :) and when the clock shows 00.00 my phone was ringing, my parents sent a birthday greeting. I miss them!
Then my boyfriend asked me if I want to see my present now or tomorrow and I said now. He turned on my laptop and open google map. He pointed a small island between Italia and France named Sardinia island. I have never heard this island before. He showed me some pictures, it looks totally awesome beaches! Then he said that we are going there on August 26th. I was surprised because I really want to go to the beach but never thought it will happen in Italy! I kissed him and say thank!!!! I was super happy. I could not believe that he has this idea. How lucky I am! :)

During the day we planned to go to a castle place in Lednice but it cancelled because we realize we woke up too late then we decide to go there on tuesday. I was a little bit disappointed but what could I do. He said we could go to Spilberk castle in centre of Brno so I turn happy :)
I prepared our lunch, it was fried chicken, rice and mushroom potatoes. Disaster happened!!! He complained my cooked and behave such a kid. He dislike the food and make his own food, scramble egg. I was totally upset! :-/
Yeah I am a beginner, I just start to cook because of him. If I were not with him, I just eat simple things such as boiled eggs and rice. That's enough for me!

We talk back again in less than one hour and we went to the city centre. He planned to buy me a birthday cake and check the Spilberk castle. In the end we could not manage to go inside Spilberk castle, because too late (again!) and also for birthday cake because we could not find candle anywhere (damn it!). But I was happy because I get a homemade cheese cake and special chocolate drink from two different cafes :)
Also as a pleasure, I wanted to get KFC fried chicken for a long time and I ate them today!!!! Yajuuuuu.... I missed rice as companion.
Beside to eat, I also bought a novel of Sophie Kinsella, title Twenties Girl. Hopefully it's a fun to read!

In the night we back home and drank a hungarian wine that I bought in Budapest. I just drank a little bit cause after that I got a small stomachache.

Well, here is the report of my 23 birthday. I realized in Life always happens nice and shit moments. I know that and keep on smiling when shit happens. I gotta thank to dear God to give me such a blissful life with family, friends and boyfriend around me, although life does not happen as we plan. Cheers!

Enjoying Brno city landscape


                                              
Where to go next?


                                            
Yes I am going to Italy next week! to Sardinia island, not to Pisa. It is a frame inside Cafe Mezzanine.


                                             
I will discover Spilberk castle soon. I still have time thou ;)


                             
My birthday homemade cheese cake and hot chocolate Moretto with Hazelnut. I feel blessed!


                                
I did not eat this shit indeed super yummy for quite a long time. I really want to eat them and it happens in my birthday :)


                                      
Close the day with white hungarian wine! I bought in Budapest and my super cute ex boyfriend choose for me.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Day -1

Thursday, 19 August 2010

The idea to create a blog pop up in my mind again while I was cycling around Brno Dam. I made a blog before but it did not maintain well. Yeah... I was lazy and spent too much time on facebook. But hey... I just realized, damn life, I had so many blissful moments, especially in my twenty two age (I have an opportunity to live in Europe!!!!). Forget about laziness! I want to record my life in a tool name blog so one day I will re-read again and feel the sense of life and good thing to contemplate. I will appreciate any comment, but it will be just a bonus ;). I am writing in English although I am not an English native to get more readers. I am sorry for bad grammars or whatever on it, as long as you get what I mean :)
I want to capture every moment in my life start from upcoming age, which will happen tomorrow. Yup... I am gonna be 23 years old on August 20th, 2010.

What did I do today?

One day before my born-date, I went for cycling with my boyfriend around Brno Dam (local people called the place as Brněnská (Kníničská) přehrada). After quiet a long time I did not do cycling, it was a disaster thing to cycle almost 30km (up-down hill). I was thinking my boyfriend wanted to kill me slowly (hahaha... nah bebe, I am just kidding!). My breath, head, and legs are fucked up. I felt my head has lack of oxygen and I started to cry while I was riding my bike to up hill, but he did not see because he was in front and 100 meters distance. (I swore him, because this sport is his thing and not mine at all but he wanted to see me to be a sportive girl. I was a sportive girl, five years back :D)


Anyway, it was not a bad idea after all when I saw how beautiful Brno is. I just need more exercise so I can feel the fun of riding mountain bike. Fortunately, I have this sport man as my boyfriend! I am as a lazy-ass could get some muscle although he needs to force me a bit.


Some pictures below. Enjoy! 

stop a while to check how ducks work on their foot in Brno Dam


View of Brno city from hill


My boyfriend's lovely bike. He loves it so much! :-/


He is a good biker, not me!


the Veveri Castle


I am in Czech Republic


almost die! and he enjoyed taking my picture. damn boy!


riding.. riding...until the sun goes down